4 Reasons Older Men Can “Hit It” With Me

Athena Fatbottum
3 min readSep 8, 2020
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“I’m not as good as I once was, but I’m as good once as I ever was.” Song: “As Good as I Once Was,” Artist: Toby Keith

There is a lot a ranting and raving going on about the young men of this world. But I’m not totally in that camp. Sometimes I want a young man that can ride me like a pony all night long, but sometimes I want a bit of finesse and experience in my bed.

Now every young man is not untrained, and every older man is not the bomb, but, in this one woman’s knowledge, there is an age gap. I try to mix it up with some old and some young men in the same week.

When using dating apps or meeting someone new, I always consider their age.

1. Romance

The older men want to meet before we get it on. If we are at their home or mine, there is always a glass of wine, candles, and conversation. There are snacks and sometimes even a light dinner.

When it is my home, I fix the wine, candles, and food because I know that is what will turn the older man on. That generation likes to feel that you prepared for them, even if it is a one-nighter.

2. Cleanliness of the home

The sheets are clean… no other women have been in that bed. Most of the time, the man hasn’t even slept on the sheets. The bed is freshly made up in anticipation of us doing the do. The clean sheets are for me and me alone.

With young men, I ask for a bedding change if we are at their apartment. I don’t know what they have been doing and I don’t want to smell whatever.

Most of the time, with older men, there are flowers for me. They pick the house up. The bathroom is clean and fresh towels are ready for later. It thrills the older man that you are coming over, so he will do all he can to ensure he gets what he is expecting.

3. Cleanliness of the man

When the older gentleman takes off his clothing, there will not be brown streaks in his drawers. I won’t tell…

Athena Fatbottum

Adventuress, loves new things, willing to try anything